Life keeps on changing. People around you change, the environment you want is what you can't always have. We often grow up with a mindset, come what may, certain things will never change. Things that sets up apart as an individual, things that define who we truly are.
For over 20 years, a girl is brought up in an environment that never prepares her for what's about to come when it's time for her to leave that comfort zone. She isn't taught how to be or what to be when one day she wakes up in a house never known to her before, around people unknown. Yes, at a certain age, she starts getting the pep talk of how she has to get married one day and her partner will be her companion for good and for worse. Although, they forget to mentally prepare us about how hard it is going to be to let go of your father's hand, how difficult it will be to not have him at your back and end. They forget to tell us how hard it will be not to be able to cry on his shoulder, to hug him when you are happy/sad. The worst thing they forget to prepare us for not being able to see him around constantly.
Changes are good, we get to progress in life. Yet, its the phase of accepting the changes that makes or breaks a person.
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